Headed Nowhere Fast?

Stop following someone else’s map.

You are what you love


You are what you love, not what loves you!

Honesty check – It does not matter what someone else thinks of you, how they love you, how they treat you, or how they feel about you. This even includes your significant other if you have one.

Can we talk? How often are our emotions or choices guided by the people and things in our lives that we desire to love us? We voluntarily sign ourselves up to be victims controlled by their world, their passions, their emotions, or whatever.

The Bottom line: What do you love? What are you passionate about? What gets your juices flowing? What is your dream? What fulfills you design?

If you want better relationships stop looking to others and start looking at yourself. Here is a truth that will take you far: The better lover you are the better relationships you will have. I’m not talking about sex here. I’m talking about how you love others from the foundation of how you are designed to live, love, and play. Every person has a design. A specific and beautiful intention that is your gift to others. It is your chief way to love the world. It is the easiest way for you to love. It is the most natural and organic way for you to love. Know yourself, know your dreams, know your passions, and love well from there.



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